The Emotionally Intelligent Woman: My Awakening to a Life-Changing Skill
I used to think being smart was enough. I had the degrees, the drive, and the determination to succeed. But here’s the truth I discovered the hard way: intelligence alone doesn’t stop you from snapping at your partner after a long day, struggling to connect with colleagues, or feeling like you’re losing yourself when life gets overwhelming. Believe me life gets really overwhelming even when we least expect it to be. There was a time I completely “goofed” because I didn’t understand my emotions. I remember walking into a situation at work some years ago, instead of calmly managing the situation, it escalated and it became a very ugly scene. I got defensive too quickly and i allowed my emotions override my judgement. In that moment, I thought I was being “strong” or “right,” but later I realized I had missed an opportunity to connect and show empathy. That wasn’t the only time. Looking back, I can see how many times I let stress, frustration, or pride take the driver’s seat —...
